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Over 17: (Not Abusive)
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Between 15-17: (Potentially Abusive)
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Under 15: (Abusive Relationship)
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If you answered Question 1 with “a lot of tension” and Question 2 with “great difficulty,” there is a likelihood you are in an abusive relationship. If any Questions 3-8 were answered with “often” or “sometimes,” those are additional indications that you are in an abusive relationship.
No matter what your score, if you have a concern about Your or your Children’s Safety or any relationship you are in, you might find it helpful to join a support group, talk with someone at a local women’s shelter or women’s center. Call the Police or Speak to Someone Who Can Help You, You can also speak with your doctor or a Social Services Worker. The important thing is you seek help.